We all know that in every portion of our life whether it be the food we eat, the company we keep, our hair style, or our outfit, a little spice is always nice!
Well, believe it or not, this applies to relationships too! Are you the type of person that is in a long term relationship or hoping to be involved in one sooner or later? Well, some sound advice is to make sure you keep the spice between you and your significant other. This is a quite simple rule that most people find hard to follow.
Time
The number one rule in any relationship is to always find time for you. You have to be a whole before you can be someone else’s half. Whether you like to work out, sit in your favorite café and read a book or magazine, or simply sit on the couch and watch a movie, you should find time to do your favorite things alone.
This in turn allows for you to actually miss that person you just adore and can’t live without! In a long term relationship, it is important to have separate time so that when you finally do go on a date, you are as excited as the first time you ever laid eyes on that person!
Something New
Another way to keep the spice between you guys is to try new things together. This way you both grow as an individual person and at the same time as a couple. Afterwards, the conversations will continue to flow because you will always have new things to talk about. Try new foods/restaurants together, new workouts, or even healthy diets! It’s nice to challenge each other!
Today, we are referred to as the cell phone generation; we text, tweet, and Facebook on our phones all day long. But randomly sent emails or phone calls just to say “Hi” or “I love you” are very romantic and a delightful surprise. So are things like picnics, candle lit dinners at home and of course, an old but goody, walks on the beach!
Always remember to have fun, experience new things, be romantic, and live in the moment!
Love,
Erica Marie
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